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Feel like I am having a sort of "dry spell" here the last couple of years...maybe this is the way the universe needed me to be for now, and something greater is coming in the future - dang! In the meantime it is great thoughts like your blog here that feed my need for Femme interaction with my Butch soul! I'm from the opposite end of the butch-femme spectrum and what I adore about that is all that long-burning fuse in between us burning up the night and warming my days!
Please don't ever think that you don't have your fans and admirers - some of us (like me;-)) are even still single! Come to Chicago where the reception is as warm as the femmes! And thanks, too, have to go out to Butch Drifter and Master Amazon who managed to read my mind and put together a great response.
There is something about being in close proximity to a butch woman that makes me go a little fluttery inside – kind of melty and shy, and occasionally, bold.
Perhaps this is accentuated by the fact that butches are rare and precious in my particular corner of the universe, but when and wherever they cross my path, something within me sits up and takes notice – because I share the other side of the secret.
I stumbled on this site last night and read your Love Song to butch women. I didn’t realize there were women who held any special thoughts about butch women, are they endangered too?cuz at school there is no dikes well theres one and once again shes taken and she hates me so what does that tell you i feel like im hopeless like im never going to find the girl im looking for im a femme so i thought buch woman would talk to me but its not as easy as it looks so somebody h elp me thanks love tristen Thanks for your beautiful commentary supporting us Female and Dyke centered Butches! So many of us have resisted being boxed into stereotypical feminine roles, or attempts to feminize us, while asserting OUR OWN powerful Selves in a world that doesn't want us to exist, and either attempts to erase our defiance and our powerful stance, or attempts to erase us and attempt to make us pass or 'become' some form of male.